Heal Your Life
1 What I Believe
Life is very simple: What we give out, we get back. Everyone is responsible for everything in our lives, the best and the worst.
We create a situation by our thoughts, then we give our power away by blaming others for our frustration. Psychologists call this “Locos of control. No person, place, or no thingNo person, place, or nothing has any power over us that we don’t give that power away.
The Universe totally supports you and manifests into reality what our thought pattern is. Our subconscious mind accepts whatever we choose to believe about myself and my situation, so, what I believe about myself and about my life comes true.
The God-Mind never judges or criticizes us. It simply reflects back our beliefs. Those beliefs may not be in your awareness. They are the totality of all your learning and happenings in your life to this point. Whatever you chose to believe that is what you will see unfolding in your life.
Most of us have foolish ideas about who we are and many very rigid rules about how life ought to be lived. These were learned or imprinted by a number of avenues. I’m not condemning you for this. We all have them. But we can change even the most rigid rule by changing our thoughts.
Your subconscious mind is like a robot, or a computer. It’s a matter of GIGO (garbage in, garbage out). It can be no other way, unless you stop putting garbage into it. In our very early childhood, we learned how to feel about ourselves, others in our lives, and our environment.
Think about it this way. As an infant you need your diaper changed or food. If those needs are met in a relatively timely fashion, and on a fairly constant manner, we learn to trust our environment. However, if we go long periods of time and our diaper GOP’s unchanged, or you don’t get fed regularly, and we go hungry for longer than you would like, you begin to distrust your caregiver and the environment.
Think about it this way. As an infant you need your diaper changed or food. If those needs are met in a relatively timely fashion, and on a fairly constant manner, we learn to trust our environment. However, if we go long periods of time and our diaper GOP’s unchanged, or you don’t get fed regularly, and we go hungry for longer than you would like, you begin to distrust your caregiver and the environment .
This is how you got where you are.
If you are like most of us who discovered Unity later in life, you have a semi load of beliefs about yourself that simply aren’t true. You we’re likely told that you are a sinner. That God is some being out there in a place called heaven. You learned that Jesus was the only way to get to heaven, which was some place in the sky, or if you didn’t confess your sins, and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior you would go to hell. The list of untruths that we learned as Gospel goes on and on.
Those things are keeping you where you are.
- What is the problem?
Your body doesn’t work right: you have aches and pains,? Unstable on your feet?
Your relationships don’t work. They run hot and cold. You are unhappy in them. I am smothered by my partner. People pick on me all the time, etc.
Your finances don’t work. You face difficulties in making ends meet. You owe too much. You experience a “never enoughment.” I’ve probably experienced all these at one time or another in my own life.
Ask yourself the following questions:
- What is happening in your life right now?
- How is your health?
- What do you do for a living or with your time, if you are not working?
- Do/Did you like your work?
- How are your finances?
- How is your love life?
- How did your last relationship end?
- And the relationship before that?
- What was your childhood like?
Now, on a sheet of paper, write out exactly how you think about your life. Use the list above as a guide.
For instance, I would answer the first question this way: “Right now, I am the Spiritual Leader of Unity of Leavenworth. We have enough to meet our needs, and enjoy some extra’s in life. I am finishing the last three classes to apply for admission to Unity’s Ministerial and Religious Science program to gain ordination.
So, there you have it. A set of questions, and an instruction to answer them honestly!
The next set of questions repeat the above list, but now you are to write what you think about those situations. First, write the first things that come to mind when you answer them. Then go back over your list and try to go a layer deeper, and discover /what you say when you talk to yourself.
This might tickle your desire to change things in your life.
- How to change things:
The very first thing you need to do is correct any “error thoughts.” Those are thoughts that state the truth about you. Such as “I am healthy!”
The idea behind restating your thoughts with the truth of who you are is to get you thinking in terms of Truth. However, If you are like most of us, myself included, you only think about that thought once in a while.
Well folks, that just is not enough to repeat it a couple of times, and when things don’t change quickly, you give up!
It is entirely necessary for you to follow the path below to see your change:
- Decide exactly what you want to change the most in your life right now.
- Write it down exactly as you want it. Be as detailed as possible
- Some people benefit from what is called a “Treasure Map (a piece of paper or poster board on which you paste pictures that represent that thin you desire. Dozens of them! Fill the board!
- Now, visualize, or think what it would feel like to have that desire NOW
- Place your “Treasure Map” in VERY prominent location in your home.
- .Now formulate an affirmation in a manner that you claim what is already yours. An example would be: “I am prosperous. I easily meet my bills on time, and have money left to use for entertainment.
Next week I will continue this discussion about Healing Your Life.
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